Just a simple statement about beauty.

    I have the feeling I might lose some of the few followers that I have, but I come in peace. 

     A few months ago, I made a post about my Self Improvement Plan. A few girls have been interested in my blog because of those post. Also, I am making this particular statement due to some of the blogs I have ran into on this site. 

   I want everyone to know that this Plan is not to get skinny. It's not to lose weight. It's not to fit into a size X. It's to better myself. It's to become healthy and to make better choices in my life. 

   I really want people to realize that before they make changes to themselves and their body, they have to LOVE THEMSELVES AS THEY ARE. They need to realize that no matter what size they are, or what their I.Q. is, or what the number on the scale is, that THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL. They need to accept themselves as they are and who they are. They need to be comfortable with their body, every hair, every stretch mark, every pound, before they can make true, healthy changes in their lifestyles

    Also, make sure you know who and what you are making the changes for. For your family? Your boss? Your boyfriend? Jealousy of a friend? Competition with someone? These are not good motivations for yourself. They aren't from the heart and will be harder to follow though with. Also, when you do that, you put those things before yourself. Is jealousy worth more than you? Or is some competition? Is what your enemy told you worth more to you than yourself? Is what some stranger said? No. It's not. Not worth starving yourself, or removing food from yourself, or over pushing yourself. You should make changes for YOU. To be a healthier you, a stronger you. A you that's good at sports, can dance. A you that makes healthy choices. To be a you that you would love to be. 

Remember to always, ALWAYS, love yourself.